When you get engaged, it seems like just about every married person you know starts offering up unsolicited love and marriage advice. Well, we’re guilty of it too—except we figured we’d spare you the long-winded responses and ask our staffers and The Nest and The Bump members (who’ve been hitched from one year on up to 31 years!) to share their best tips for making sure your new love lasts—in two sentences or less. Some of them went long, but they’re definitely still worth a read.